{"id":531,"date":"2003-10-17T15:29:00","date_gmt":"2003-10-17T19:29:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tdgsafety.wordpress.com\/2003\/10\/17\/you-have-to-mean-it\/"},"modified":"2003-10-17T15:29:00","modified_gmt":"2003-10-17T19:29:00","slug":"you-have-to-mean-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/2003\/10\/17\/you-have-to-mean-it\/","title":{"rendered":"You have to mean it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i>Back at Bond Street, there I gave a Mindfucks presentation. It went well, and afterward, Master Jim met me in the lobby, and asked &#8220;Flagg, how can someone who knows you- trusts you enough to play with you- ever be really scared? I mean, with a knife&#8230; they know you are not going to kill them. How can they really be scared?&#8221; <\/i><\/p>\n<p>I use <a href=\"http:\/\/weblog.foolish-house.com\/\">Innuendo <\/a> for personal, life effecting stuff; I intend to use this LJ as a BDSM\/ Scene communication tool\/ journal. So, predictably, the very first thing I want to write about falls squarely between the two. <\/p>\n<p>So, I&#8217;ll post it on <a href=\"http:\/\/weblog.foolish-house.com\/\">Innuendo <\/a> . It at least gives me the illusion of keeping these things&#8230; &#8220;discreet&#8221;? I suppose because Innuendo is my site, my domain- I figure there I can post any damn thing I want, and it won&#8217;t automatically show up on someone else&#8217;s friends list. Nobody has to read it if they don&#8217;t want to. <\/p>\n<p>If you are on the elist I run &#8211; <a href=\"http:\/\/groups.yahoo.com\/group\/AbsoluteBDSM\/\">Absolute BDSM<\/a>&#8211; you have already seen this, in pretty much this form. If not, you are welcome to take a look- but it&#8217;s more personal than most LJ chatter, and I think I should keep that division.<\/p>\n<p>Everybody here is a big kid. I figure you can all draw whatever lines you want to, and ride whatever ride you are tall enough for.<\/p>\n<p><i> I thought about it a second, and said the only thing that could really explain something much bigger- and much darker- than I was ready to try to explain.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Jim&#8217; I said, &#8220;<b>You have to mean it<\/b>.&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Back at Bond Street, there I gave a Mindfucks presentation. It went well, and afterward, Master Jim met me in the lobby, and asked &#8220;Flagg, how can someone who knows you- trusts you enough to play with you- ever be really scared? I mean, with a knife&#8230; they know you are not going to kill [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=531"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/531\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=531"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=531"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/foolish-house.local\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=531"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}